Usually during this initial meeting, I listen more and talk less.
I want to hear from you, what you are feeling, what you are experiencing, what a day in the life of your child looks like, and if you are struggling to express or think of specifics, I might probe with some leading questions to help unlock the information.
I can lend an objective ear and give honest feedback and advice, based on literally years of working with parents just like you.
Each one has a different story, but the patterns are similar and the solutions are not too distant. We just need to find them.